Friday, August 1, 2008

Love You like I Love Me

Hello family and love ones!!

I come to you day with love in my heart and coffee in my belly...

I want to express the IMPORTANCE of loving and appreciating yourself. As much as people want to show off, flaunt the goods and tell you how great they are, it is always evident in your eyes the love that you have for your self, and some people, as described above, are distant.

Love yourself. Take time to fully appreciate you because no one else will the way they are suppose to until you can. No husband or boyfriend, family or friend, girlfriends or wives. Because if you can't love yourself, it shows and others can't love you.

I have seen so many situations where a person forces their love on others. Serial relationships with people. Serial promiscuity. Abandonment for relationships. They strive to feel love from outside sources when in reality Love comes first from the inside.

It has taken me years to get to the point of self realization. I dealt with self esteem issues pretty badly and I took sometime to myself, released all dependencies and really took a look at the person that I have no choice but to deal with everyday, me. I took myself on dates and discovered new things, likes and dislikes, pet peeves and talents. I discovered new thoughts and realizations that can be hidden when you constantly dealing with other people and trying to please others that who you really are becomes hidden. You have to unveil the truth that is your spirit and love it and appreciate it. Life has been great since I did.

And if you have come to your self realization Great!! But someone you know hasn't. Let them know how wonderful life can be. Let them know that they don't have to be promiscuous, they don't have to be verbally, mentally, physically, emotionally abused, they don't have to be mistreated, lied to or cheated on. They don't have to be a hater or stuck in ruts. Because if they love themselves enough.... they for sure would not take it.

Ponder on that friends...


See you when I see you,

Mz.BonafideDiva